Does school really matter?

[uls]

pero sa online dating mahalaga ung educational background

coz sa online dating people are looking at specs

[dr. d]

pero sa online dating mahalaga ung educational background

coz sa online dating people are looking at specs

i wonder,
how much of those "specs" that the users put in, are real,
and how much are embellishments?

[uls]

an informal study...
we noticed that many of our male medical school teachers, MDs, were married to nurses.
once we got into the hospital proper, we understood why.
for several years during training, all these doctor trainees saw, were patients, fellow doctors, and nurses.

data from online dating apps/sites show:

women date across or above their socio-economic level

men date across or below their socio-economic level

in other words women would date men who are richer / higher social status, or kasing-yaman / same social status

men would date women who are same level or poorer / lower social status

like you'll see male doctors marry female doctors or nurses

but it's rarer for female doctors to marry male nurses

[uls]

i wonder,
how much of those "specs" that the users put in, are real,
and how much are embellishments?

one can put fake specs sa dating profile pero when you meet and go into a relationship how long can you sustain it?

unless one is only looking for hookups and the fake profile is used to bait people

[bugsmobile]

I didn't want to spell it out but I think that's the case of the colleague of my Paulinian friend She didn't come from a good gs/hs, college lang nakapag aral sa DLSU pero kung makalait ng Ateneans. Even AC she hates din daw (where did that come from [emoji15] ) It's as if her school is her main identity and proof that she's "elite"

Pero kaya I posted din kasi baka nga iba na generation ngayon, those born in the 2000s. Sa reddit kasi dami rin complaints about school discrimination when dating. Iba kasi ngayon may internet na anonymous and a lot of thoughts are voiced out na dati hindi pinaguusapan

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I noticed that the people who just studied in top schools for college are usually yung mga nagyayabang about their school.

[uls]

i think it's coz people who went to 2nd tier/ 3rd tier elementary / high schools they aspire to go to top universities

it's aspirational...

they look at top universities as exclusive clubs they dream of getting into... so once nakapasok feel na feel nila... so they brag about it

while those who went to top elementary and high schools no big deal for them coz it's like normal

[dr. d]

I noticed that the people who just studied in top schools for college are usually yung mga nagyayabang about their school.

the reverse has been my experience.
the top school graduates i know, do not go around, bragging about themselves.

myself,
when asked where i gradweyted from,
i feel a bit un-easy, when i say i am a graduate of (put top school here).

[_Cathy_]

the reverse has been my experience.
the top school graduates i know, do not go around, bragging about themselves.

myself,
when asked where i gradweyted from,
i feel a bit un-easy, when i say i am a graduate of (put top school here).

Observation namin it's MOSTLY the top school ONLY for COLLEGE na madalas mayabang about their school like the colleague of my Paulinian friend na college lang nag DLSU pero mayabang at lakas manlait ng ibang schools. Kulang na lang siguro magsuot ng DLSU jacket sa school.

BTW, meron sa office namin na ganyan. Nakasabit lang school jacket sa office chair niya [emoji23] Pero college din lang naman siya at that school.

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[dreamur]

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[dreamur]

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