How to end an illicit love affair?

[pitbullz]

bakit masarap ang bawal

[1D4LV]

tama si niky... its like quitting smoking.
trust me, i've experienced that too before (when i was 7 years married), and like nicotene, is quite hard to stop pag lalong tumatagal.

[valvura]

tell the truth to your lover but don't tell your wife.

your lover may forgive you but your wife may not. can you handle that?

isipin mo na habang tumatagal yan, mas lalong sumasakit ang kahihinatnan.

Same advice as above. After you come out of this, it could serve as a lesson for you. Try joining Christian renewal communities to straighten your life.

[MaNgo_Crepe]

tell the truth to your lover but don't tell your wife.

your lover may forgive you but your wife may not. can you handle that?

I agree w/ this...have the balls to tell the truth to your lover and end the said affair.. but don't tell it to your wife, what she doesn't know won't hurt....i myself, being a wife, hinde kita talaga titigilan hanggat hinde ko nakikilala yung girl...and worst, baka hiwalayan pa kita

[alwayz_yummy]

MC di ako yan ha.. ayaw ko na ng gulo noh..

[111prez]

truth + ask for forgiveness + accept the consequences -- from all involved, from God, your wife and the other party

in the bible, even David committed sin but sincerely asked for forgiveness and he was restored by God

[CVT]

Agree with H1Tman and MC,- tell the truth and breakup with your lover, but do not tell your wife. And, hope to high heavens that she will not find out. But, be ready.

Do not look back,- just move on with your life, together with your wife (and kid/s?). And, have the steadfast resolve to never do it again.

IMO, most importantly,- you have to confess this to a Priest.

Good luck bro.

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[CVT]

Bakit nag-double post na naman ito???

Bro.,- baka tsikoteer din iyang kakilala mo.... :peace:

6303:fetch:

[_Cathy_]

I agree with ULS. Chances are she'll break up with you unless she's a masochist and would agree to be your mistress.

I also advise you to pray and ask God to lead you to the right path.

[batangmahal]

Truth hurts. But it's only the truth that can set us free. I guess all the parties concerned (wife and gf) should know about it. There can be different reactions of course. We're but human... human enough to commit foolishness. But it's also being human to admit our dalliances. Why do we need to tell the truth about our illicit love affair? For everybody's peace of mind... for the gf to realize your dishonesty, and then move on. For the wife to know your mistake, and pray that she forgives you (or probably not) and yet move on too. And for you too, to be more repentant of your mistake and learn the bitter lessons, and hope that you can move on too!

In all things, PRAY!