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August 22nd, 2007 12:54 AM #31Divorce is just another word for an easy way out in a troubled marriage.
LOVE is the keyword to any relationship.- It is not an easy task as it demands all your strength and energy in order to sustain such. But if you have LOVE, everything else in a relationship/marriage will follow in a rightful direction.
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August 22nd, 2007 01:23 AM #32
there is one way to solve a cold & dull or have fallen out of love relationship, swing parties. wala eh sometimes the disease can be also a cure
another example, some of the successful & wealthy people in the US are into this. yun tipong the wives allow the 45+ yr old man to date a younger girl and in turn, the husbands allows their wives to dance este date younger sculpted men. they'd be furious at first pero they will heal in time and sometimes as a matured society that they are, they know na may urge ang bawat isa. parausin lang then back to a happy marriage
anyway, nabasa ko lang to heheheLast edited by oldblue; August 22nd, 2007 at 01:27 AM.
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August 22nd, 2007 02:04 AM #33
No... divorce is the end of a dead marriage. Why burden people who clearly doesn't love each other anymore enough to stay under one roof? This doesn't even include spouse abuse, extra marital affairs, etc.
LOVE is the keyword to any relationship.- It is not an easy task as it demands all your strength and energy in order to sustain such. But if you have LOVE, everything else in a relationship/marriage will follow in a rightful direction.
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August 22nd, 2007 09:10 AM #35
There should be a different way to end a marriage. Amend the Family Code and put a 10-year term for marriages, subject to the parties being able to renew their marriage vows (and contract).
Kung gusto talaga nila, they'll stay on. If it doesn't work, all you have to do is let the initial term of their marriage lapse.
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August 22nd, 2007 11:57 AM #36
Yup... it isn't just love.
It takes trust, commitment, and dedication for a marriage to prosper.
I know the vows are meant to be sacred, but love is blind. A lot of people run headlong into marriage not knowing what they're in for.
And at the end of that journey... if two people are dedicated enough to make a marriage work, they'll stay together. If they're not... why force them to?
You can't correct one mistake by compounding it with another... by forcing two incompatible, unloving people to stay together.
Divorce is not an "easy out". There's already legal separation for that. Divorce is meant to give the wronged partner the opportunity to start over again.
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To those of you who don't believe divorce should be legalized, consider this:... have you ever had a friend in an abusive relationship? Or one who has been left by their spouse? Is it just for them to be made to stay in that relationship and not find another? That's all I've been asking you to think about.
You're thinking about marriage from the viewpoint of a loving couple. And for those of us who have found a mate who is trustworthy and committed to us, marriage is bliss. But to turn a blind eye to the suffering of those who haven't is wrong.
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August 22nd, 2007 01:09 PM #37
I am definitely and absolutely in favor of divorce.
At least you still have a choice of really fighting for it or end it and move on. At di yung you'll forever live a miserable life and can't be happy anymore (with someone else).
Wag na pilitin lung di talaga pwede. At ang makakaalam nun e yung couple involved at di yung mga priest or ibang tao or whomever na di nararanasan yung nararanasan nung couple.
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August 22nd, 2007 01:46 PM #38So why marry??? It starts with love, trust, respect, commitement and etc just follows.
If one doesn't have the guts and energy to sustain their marriage,- better stay single and you will not have the burden of un-ideal marriage.
A working marriage is a continous effort exerted by both individual.
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August 22nd, 2007 01:51 PM #39So why marry??? It starts with love.- trust, respect, commitment and etc just follows.
If one doesn't have the guts and energy to sustain their marriage, better stay single, and you will not have the burden of an un-ideal marriage.
A working marriage is a continous effort exerted by both individual.
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August 22nd, 2007 02:03 PM #40
You're not getting the point.
What if he is trusting, respectful, committed and etcetera, but his partner is not?
Again, tinitignan niyo from the perspective that anyone who wants divorce is a selfish person looking for an easy out. Hello... WRONG. The selfish partner has left already... what is their partner to do?
The government tells them... tough break, kiddo... sorry, one-time deal...
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Okay, please answer me this:
Does a partner who has been left by his/her spouse deserve the right to remarry?
Don't give me anything about love, commitment, etcetera... the partner "was" committed... but for some reason, their spouse wasn't.Last edited by niky; August 22nd, 2007 at 02:06 PM.
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